Bisexual Dating outside the Herpes Club

You've taken your time and gave it the great gun-ho attitude to meet people living with herpes. Sure there are some people who peak your interest and then some that don't. Thing is you happened to meet someone (on another non-STD site) or maybe just somewhere out and about. You struck up a conversation and things have progressed to the point that you think you want to move forward with "The Talk". It's been a couple of dates and you really are digging this person, so you decide tonight is the night.

Make sure you don't go to far in 'bisexual dating' and forget that the other person has a right to know, as soon as possible and has feelings to be considered. If the relationship is strong and the person feels they can handle the exposure (or perhaps they even have experience or have been exposed to an STD) they be receptive to hearing you out and the possibility of engaging further in the relationship.

However, remember they may choose not to continue the relationship and this IS NOT A DIRECT REFLECTION OF YOU. You MUST KNOW THIS: The basis of any relationship begins with SELF LOVE. That means if you love yourself in lieu of dealing with, having and living with herpes, then you will attract that kind of love from someone like minded, regardless if they have an STD or not and the possibilities are limitless.

In the same breath you have to give others the space to love themselves and sometimes that won't include you. Just be safe, honest and truthful to yourself and above all LOVE YOUR SELF.